send can fail silently when sending would block (EWOULDBLOCK return for send) (#18)

* try to use a pipe for communication

* flush send buffer on the background thread

* cleanup

* linux fix / linux still use event fd for now

* cleanup

ixwebsocket/IXWebSocket.cpp

@@ -379,4 +379,9 @@ namespace ix
     {
         _automaticReconnection = false;
     }
+
+    size_t WebSocket::bufferedAmount() const
+    {
+        return _ws.bufferedAmount();
+    }
 }